Diaper Doodie Update

Diaper Doodie has taken on a new meaning with the introduction to solid foods.  More adult-like food means more adult-like poop.  Breast milk poop was fine to throw in the washing machine- adult-like poop is not.

I had told Chris before Phoebe was born that when this time came we would purchase and install a diaper sprayer to our toilet to spray out the diapers in the toilet.  But now that the time is here,  I don't want to spend the money.  Part of the decision to use cloth was for the financial benefit.  So spending $45 on a diaper sprayer is not high on my list.

So what did I do instead?  I spent $3.00 on a pair of rubber gloves and this is now what diaper doodie looks like at the Bowen household.

Gross, right?  Luckily it doesn't bother me.  After I change her I take the dirty diaper to the toilet, dump, scrap or rinse it out and throw it into our wet bag to be washed with the next load of diapers.

Another option is flushable liners.  And really I will probably break down and buy these very soon.  (Update, I just purchased some Bumkins diaper liners so I'll let you know what I think of them soon.   The liners go inside the diaper next to her bottom and "catch" any solid waste.  So at diaper change time you can simply dump the liner and its contents in the toilet and flush.  They are soft against the baby's skin yet strong enough so that they do not disintegrate.  I don't think I will use them on a regular basis but they will be very helpful for when we are out or when someone else is caring for her.  I would never ask anyone else to grab some rubber gloves to swish out her diapers.  When people keep her at the house I have just had them leave the dirty diapers in the toilet for me to clean out later.  And when she goes to the church nursery or childcare at the church while I'm at bible study I just have them put the dirty diaper back in the wet bag for me to take care of when I get home.  But it would be much easier if whoever is keeping her could just toss the liner in the toilet.

Update- LOVE the liners.  I just dump the solid waste in the toilet and everything is good to go!  The rubber gloves and scrubbing got old pretty quickly...

6 Months

Phoebe was 6 months old on the 3rd.  She finally started rolling over consistently from her belly to her back at about 5 1/2 months.  She still can't roll back to belly. She is starting to sit up a little bit, but can still only balance herself for a few seconds before falling over.

She is still a very content and easy baby.  She will sit/lay and play with her little toys.  Her favorites are sock monkey, a little caterpillar, and these plastic keys.  Oh and Knox- she definitely thinks Knox is a toy.  I love it when she gets in giggling fits and just laughs and laughs and laughs.  She loves watching everything that is going on.

6 Months Stats (from the doctor yesterday so really 6 1/2 month stats):
Weight- 13lbs (5th percentile- we're on somewhat of a downward slope since she's gone from 50th to 25th to 10th to 5th)
Length- 25.5in (25th percentile)

So the doctor says she is healthy and strong and isn't overly concerned about her weight.  She wants to see Phoebe back in 4 weeks for another weight check and to see if she is sitting up and rolling over both ways.  So the next 4 weeks are operation weight gain.  See below to see what I had been feeding her.  Now the doctor wants me to feed her 4oz of solids at each meal- breakfast, lunch and dinner.  I am  supposed to feed her solids first and then give her the bottle after the solids- as much as she will take.  And then offer her a bottle as a "snack" between meals and at bedtime.  So basically solid foods should be Phoebe's priority now to help her gain weight and play "catch-up".  This seems a little backwards to me because everything I had read says that breast milk/formula is a baby's primary source of nutrition for the first year, but obviously my methods aren't working very well so we'll try operation weight gain.  In four weeks if she hasn't gained an adequate amount of weight (enough to stay on the growth chart)  she said they would probably want to draw some blood and run some labs to make sure there isn't some other metabolic problem.  I'm pretty confident she will be rolling over and sitting up in another month so I'm not concerned about that.

Sleeping- Phoebe sleeps great at night.  She goes to bed at 7:30 and wakes up between 6:30 and 7.  And yes I still swaddle her.  I'll probably stop soon.  I've started leaving her arms out of the swaddle so she can get her paci back at night if she spits it out and wakes up.  She will wake up occasionally and fuss because she has lost her paci.  I used to go in and give it back to her, but I've started letting her find it herself and soothe herself back to sleep.   Naps are still challenging right now.  I read somewhere that the area of the brain that controls nighttime sleep is different from the area of the brain that controls naps.  Interesting.  Maybe that's why she does well with one but not the other. I've dedicated the past couple days and this week to staying home with her so we can work on naps. I had trouble laying her down to go to sleep but I've started laying her down about 15 minutes earlier for her nap (thank you Mary David and Babywise) and she has gone to sleep easier since she is not so tired.  She still is not sleeping very long- 20 to 40 minutes on average.  Hopefully this week we can work on taking longer naps so she's not so tired and cranky.  I miss the days when she would take long naps and even before that when she would sleep anywhere- she's much too alert and not wanting to miss anything to sleep "on-the-go" these days. She used to take a short evening nap in her swing as well, but she has outgrown that now too.

Eating- Phoebe eats 6oz four times a day- 7am, 11am, 3pm, and 7pm.  I'm still pumping...  I pump about 20oz/day and she is eating 24oz.  We are still using our hospital and free sample stash of formula, which we are so thankful for!  Sometime she takes her whole bottle easily but sometimes it is more of a challenge for her to finish the whole 6oz- it takes time and patience on our part.  We started giving her veggies and fruit between five and five and half months.  We've been giving her solids twice a day in the morning and evening (about 2 oz each time), and I'll probably add a lunch time feeding soon.  She love bananas!  She doesn't like peas or avocado, but will eat both of them mixed with bananas.  She has eaten sweet potatoes, carrots, butternut squash, peas, green beans, avocado, bananas, apples, pears and blueberries.  I have some pumpkin for her to try soon too.  I really don't like how messy feeding solids is.  It wasn't a problem for awhile, but the past couple days she has started picking the bib up and smashing its contents all over her face.  She has also started swinging her arms around with inevitably hits the spoon, gets on her hands, and goes straight into her hair...

Diapering- Has been much more interesting with the addition of solid foods.  More to come in another post later this week...

Randoms- She loves to kick water and splash in the bath now.  She laughs and laughs when I squirt water on her belly with her little bath toys.  I love putting little bows in her hair, but she has started pulling them out so she doesn't wear quite as many bows right now. And apparently I haven't taken very many pictures over the last month...

Sock Monkey

 Phoebe loves her sock monkey.  This was a baby gift from some friends in Dallas.  We thought it was adorable and Phoebe loves it because it is soft and just her size.  She can easily grab onto the arms and legs to swing it around to hear it rattle.  And even though it is soft she surprisingly likes to chew on it just as much as her keys and other hard toys.

We miss you Knox!

So last Saturday Chris dropped Knox off at puppy school for 2 weeks of training at Man's Best Friend.  He should be one of the best behaved 12 week old puppies when we pick him up.

You see this training is WHY we got the dog to begin with.  Yes, we had always wanted a dog, but the agreement had always been that we would wait until we had a yard for him to run and play in.  Last fall we were at the Marietta Square weekly farmers market and there was a silent auction as a fund raiser for Leo Mazzone's fuzzy friends.  There were quite a few items we were interested in so we decided to come back close to closing-bid time.  We decided on our max bids for several items, put our names and bids down and then we waited.

Well of all the items we bid on, we won two.  $1,500 worth of dog training at Man's Best Friend and a large dog crate filled with goodies....  Guess its time to get a dog.

We paid $100 for $1,500 worth of training and $110 for the crate and goodies.  Our max bid for the crate was $100 but when it looked like we were going to win the training I got into a bit of a bidding war with another lady who also wanted to crate.  I won.  Ha.  I was pretty proud of myself.  I want to go to another silent auction so I can beat someone else out for the prize...

Turns out this training package we won gets you the creme de la creme training.  He goes to Man's Best Friend and boards there for 2 weeks while their trainers train him.  They train him on and off-leash.  He will learn the five basic commands- sit, stay, heel, down, and come.  As well as several others that they told us about.  He will come back house trained and crate trained, which are what I'm most excited about right now.  When we called to check on him the other day they said they were working with him on not barking in the crate.  (Thank you Jesus. He whines and barks almost all night in the crate and its pitiful!)

I admit the first couple days he was gone it was a bit of a relief not to have to worry about Knox AND Phoebe.  But then I started to miss him.  And now I'm worried he won't remember us when he comes home and it will all be new again.  He was taken away from his mommy and brothers and sisters and displaced to our house for 2 weeks.  Just when he was starting to get used to it here we took him to puppy school.  Poor guy.